Wednesday, November 23, 2011
Pictures
Here are pictures from the last three weeks..
He clearly sleeps a lot.. except of course when mom and dad really want to sleep.
Thanksgiving
This year is a special thanksgiving, with lots of things to be thankful for! Usually we go home to hampton and spend the main meal with Steve's family, and then visit my family in the evening. This year since we had a baby just 3 weeks ago, we are staying in Lynchburg, and some of my family is coming to visit. My grandparents (Ethan's great grands!) and my parents and my sister and her husband are all coming to Lynchburg. Some are staying in a hotel and my parents are staying at the house with us. We are going to have a good meal and time together on Thanksgiving day. This will be the first time my sister and husband have gotten to meet the little guy! We are so excited that family is able to with us for the holiday.
The little man (as Steve loves to call him) is growing everyday. He looks more like a baby now, and less like a newborn. We've left him a few times, but for no more than 4 hours. He is eating good, but often has some fussiness in the evenings, but we are working on this.
Gotta go - hopefully another update with pictures later this week.
The little man (as Steve loves to call him) is growing everyday. He looks more like a baby now, and less like a newborn. We've left him a few times, but for no more than 4 hours. He is eating good, but often has some fussiness in the evenings, but we are working on this.
Gotta go - hopefully another update with pictures later this week.
Monday, November 14, 2011
First week home
I thought the easy way to update everyone on how we are all doing would be to post a list of top things that have surprised me about becoming a mother:
- How much my schedule and world has changed. I knew this would happen, but didn't know exactly what this means. It means that the moment my baby needs me anything I planned on doing gets put aside. It means my whole day runs on three hour schedule because that is often I need to feed him.
- How easy it is to worry about the small things. I knew this was a struggle for every mom. That it takes a trust in the Lord, and a willingness to give the little things over to him, but I didn't know it would be a constant thing over every little detail.
- That I would have to wake him for feedings. To keep my milk supply good I need to nurse him every 2-3 hours, but he would sleep much longer if I let him. At night he goes 4 to 5 hours before waking and needing to eat.
- He doesn't cry at night when he is hungry, its more of a fussy grunting noise. Perhaps I just wake up when he starts fussying and if I didn't respond he would cry more. Not really sure, but for now it works out nicely because Steve doesn't really wake up.
- How quickly I know his different cries/noises.
- How much I love just to sit and hold him. This is one of my favorite things now. I could do it all day (but maybe not all night)
- How much I love seeing Steve be a father. It is awesome to watch your husband love and care for your son. It just melts my heart to see him with Ethan.
- How much my schedule and world has changed. I knew this would happen, but didn't know exactly what this means. It means that the moment my baby needs me anything I planned on doing gets put aside. It means my whole day runs on three hour schedule because that is often I need to feed him.
- How easy it is to worry about the small things. I knew this was a struggle for every mom. That it takes a trust in the Lord, and a willingness to give the little things over to him, but I didn't know it would be a constant thing over every little detail.
- That I would have to wake him for feedings. To keep my milk supply good I need to nurse him every 2-3 hours, but he would sleep much longer if I let him. At night he goes 4 to 5 hours before waking and needing to eat.
- He doesn't cry at night when he is hungry, its more of a fussy grunting noise. Perhaps I just wake up when he starts fussying and if I didn't respond he would cry more. Not really sure, but for now it works out nicely because Steve doesn't really wake up.
- How quickly I know his different cries/noises.
- How much I love just to sit and hold him. This is one of my favorite things now. I could do it all day (but maybe not all night)
- How much I love seeing Steve be a father. It is awesome to watch your husband love and care for your son. It just melts my heart to see him with Ethan.
And here are some pictures from the hospital.. including his first time in the carseat:
Friday, November 11, 2011
1 Week Old
Things are going great.. I love being a mommy and Steve is an AWESOME dad.. parenthood is by far the hardest thing I've ever done, but already the most rewarding. Ethan is a great baby, as long as he is warm, held often, and fed regularly he is very happy and content. I am nursing him and so far things have been good. My milk has come in and he is gaining weight. We went to the doctors yesterday and he weighed 8lbs 9oz, which is above his discharge weight of 8lbs 5 oz. It is perfectly normal for babies to lose some weight during the first days of life, and then start gaining it back around day 4/5. The doctors say he looks healthy so far!
Here he is at one week old.. Steve calls this his "Rocky" pose.
Here he is at one week old.. Steve calls this his "Rocky" pose.
Thursday, November 10, 2011
Friday, November 4, 2011
38 Weeks, 5 days = Ethan's arrival!!
Well.. for those that want details.. here we go..
Timeline:
8:00pm - while working on the nursery and enjoying a quiet normal Thursday evening at home.. my water broke!.. totally shocked.. I felt a burst and I felt other things I had never felt before.. went to the bathroom and the evidence was clear.. frantically I called my midwife practice while trying to take care of myself, let Steve know.. midwife confirmed I needed to come in.
8:05 - Steve and Jen frantically start throwing things into a suitcase - at this point still unsure if everything was going okay and with Jen having some cramping/contractions, but not super strong.
8:40ish - Arrive at hospital, get checked in..
9:00 - set up in room with monitors on indicating everything looks normal.. checked by midwife and biggest suprise ever.. I was 8cm dilated, fully effaced, and zero station!! - Which basically means I had been in some form of labor for days or hours and didn't even know it... I laughed.. and Steve and I quickly realized that not only were we going to have baby tonight, but that it was happening fast.
10ish - a few church family members arrived for a quick visit.. at this point Jen was in a lot of pain, but managing with no meds and no IV. Shortly after this I was measured between 9 and 10 cm,
11ish - started pushing.. had a wonderful midwife that encouraged me to change positions and alos gave suggestions for things to help.. Still no pain meds.
For Jen.. the rest is a kinda of blur.. I would push really hard then roll over and go to sleep for about 2-3 minutes, then i would wake up and push again.. Already, a little over 12 hours later it seems unbelievable that I was doing this...
Pushing.. Pushing.. Pushing..
At 1:53am I reached down and grabbed my newborn baby boy Ethan and become overwhelmed with a variety of emotions.. love, laughter, tears, relief..
Placenta came out normal sometime after this..
Ethan was checked out and totally normal.. weighing in at 8lbs, 15oz.
Jen started to have heavy bleeding.. midwife worked on me for about 25 minutes.. ordered Pitocin to help uterus contract and control bleeding.. given an IV for this. Things were scary for a few minutes but they got it under control. Once they got me under control i was able to hold Ethan for longer and nurse him.. the biggest thing was this kept me in Labor Delivery until amost 5am for observation before they moved us to mother baby ward.. this is a little longer than normal. They also would not let me get out of bed until after I ate so they had to wheel me on a stretcher from one unit to the other.
Highlights so far.. had the most amazing nurse.. nurse Freddie (female).. she was sweet, encouraging, attentive, and especially with the bleeding and first feedings she was very attentive and wonderful. She told me afterwards that I was amazing for pushing him out with no meds, and that I was an inspiration. She was just such a blessing sent from the Lord.
I truly believe that little Ethan is a miracle in everyway. We are overwhelmed by the love and support of family and friends. The Lord is truly wonderful and this special gift just reminds me how much he loves each person, and what the sacrifice of Jesus on the Cross means as a parent giving up their child. God's grace was evident in our delivery and we are so thankful to him for a short delivery with a safe recovery so far.
How can you help? Pray for my recovery as I lost a lot of blood.. contact Steve for helps with meals and visiting. We will be discharged sometime on Sunday.
Timeline:
8:00pm - while working on the nursery and enjoying a quiet normal Thursday evening at home.. my water broke!.. totally shocked.. I felt a burst and I felt other things I had never felt before.. went to the bathroom and the evidence was clear.. frantically I called my midwife practice while trying to take care of myself, let Steve know.. midwife confirmed I needed to come in.
8:05 - Steve and Jen frantically start throwing things into a suitcase - at this point still unsure if everything was going okay and with Jen having some cramping/contractions, but not super strong.
8:40ish - Arrive at hospital, get checked in..
9:00 - set up in room with monitors on indicating everything looks normal.. checked by midwife and biggest suprise ever.. I was 8cm dilated, fully effaced, and zero station!! - Which basically means I had been in some form of labor for days or hours and didn't even know it... I laughed.. and Steve and I quickly realized that not only were we going to have baby tonight, but that it was happening fast.
10ish - a few church family members arrived for a quick visit.. at this point Jen was in a lot of pain, but managing with no meds and no IV. Shortly after this I was measured between 9 and 10 cm,
11ish - started pushing.. had a wonderful midwife that encouraged me to change positions and alos gave suggestions for things to help.. Still no pain meds.
For Jen.. the rest is a kinda of blur.. I would push really hard then roll over and go to sleep for about 2-3 minutes, then i would wake up and push again.. Already, a little over 12 hours later it seems unbelievable that I was doing this...
Pushing.. Pushing.. Pushing..
At 1:53am I reached down and grabbed my newborn baby boy Ethan and become overwhelmed with a variety of emotions.. love, laughter, tears, relief..
Placenta came out normal sometime after this..
Ethan was checked out and totally normal.. weighing in at 8lbs, 15oz.
Jen started to have heavy bleeding.. midwife worked on me for about 25 minutes.. ordered Pitocin to help uterus contract and control bleeding.. given an IV for this. Things were scary for a few minutes but they got it under control. Once they got me under control i was able to hold Ethan for longer and nurse him.. the biggest thing was this kept me in Labor Delivery until amost 5am for observation before they moved us to mother baby ward.. this is a little longer than normal. They also would not let me get out of bed until after I ate so they had to wheel me on a stretcher from one unit to the other.
Highlights so far.. had the most amazing nurse.. nurse Freddie (female).. she was sweet, encouraging, attentive, and especially with the bleeding and first feedings she was very attentive and wonderful. She told me afterwards that I was amazing for pushing him out with no meds, and that I was an inspiration. She was just such a blessing sent from the Lord.
I truly believe that little Ethan is a miracle in everyway. We are overwhelmed by the love and support of family and friends. The Lord is truly wonderful and this special gift just reminds me how much he loves each person, and what the sacrifice of Jesus on the Cross means as a parent giving up their child. God's grace was evident in our delivery and we are so thankful to him for a short delivery with a safe recovery so far.
How can you help? Pray for my recovery as I lost a lot of blood.. contact Steve for helps with meals and visiting. We will be discharged sometime on Sunday.
Thursday, November 3, 2011
38 weeks, 5 days
This is a poor quality picture - took with my camera on my computer.. but it gives a good idea of how big I am.
Wednesday, October 26, 2011
37.5 Weeks
Sorry we haven't updated in a few weeks. It has been busy and exciting. I hope to post some new pictures soon too.
A little over a week ago we had another ultrasound to check baby Ethan's size. At the midway ultrasound he measured long so to get a better idea of how big this boy is the midwives wanted to do another ultrasound. It was quickly decided that he is taking after his father already. The estimated weight, which can be off by a pound or more either way was 7 lbs 11 oz. This was when I was 36 weeks and 3 days. For those that are wondering a normal weight at that time would be around 6 pounds. I was also measured on the larger side, so we are officially in the borderline large baby area.. how exciting!! (can you sense the sarcasm). We are thankful to the Lord for a healthy baby and pregnancy so far.
There are no plans for a C-Section, but there is a possibility I will be induced. If labor has not begun on its own I will be induced around the due date. This could mean a little before or a little after the date (which is November 12th). They have said they will not let me go to 41 weeks which would be one week past the due date. We are hopeful that the labor will begin on its own as usually labor progresses more quickly with less complications, but we are also excited that the end is in sight!
Are we ready for baby Ethan? Yes and No. I do not have a bag packed, but this is difficult to do since most of the things I want to have at the hospital I use. We do not have a typed out and printed birth plan, but this is on the short to do list. We do have the carseat installed, but not inspected. We have a little over half the baby clothes washed and put away in the nursery. We have the pack and play set up in our bedroom which is where the baby will sleep for at least the first 4 to 6 weeks. We are getting very excited to meet our son.
How is Jen feeling? We've gone from good to fine. I have most of the usual pregnancy complaints. This week I am battling a sinus infection, but I am daily improving. Overall I am healthy and excited to have a baby.
We are thankful to the Lord for all his blessing and we know that He is control of all the details and He will bring baby Ethan into the world when the time is right. We are thankful that we have a loving Savior who guides each step and walks with us each day.
A little over a week ago we had another ultrasound to check baby Ethan's size. At the midway ultrasound he measured long so to get a better idea of how big this boy is the midwives wanted to do another ultrasound. It was quickly decided that he is taking after his father already. The estimated weight, which can be off by a pound or more either way was 7 lbs 11 oz. This was when I was 36 weeks and 3 days. For those that are wondering a normal weight at that time would be around 6 pounds. I was also measured on the larger side, so we are officially in the borderline large baby area.. how exciting!! (can you sense the sarcasm). We are thankful to the Lord for a healthy baby and pregnancy so far.
There are no plans for a C-Section, but there is a possibility I will be induced. If labor has not begun on its own I will be induced around the due date. This could mean a little before or a little after the date (which is November 12th). They have said they will not let me go to 41 weeks which would be one week past the due date. We are hopeful that the labor will begin on its own as usually labor progresses more quickly with less complications, but we are also excited that the end is in sight!
Are we ready for baby Ethan? Yes and No. I do not have a bag packed, but this is difficult to do since most of the things I want to have at the hospital I use. We do not have a typed out and printed birth plan, but this is on the short to do list. We do have the carseat installed, but not inspected. We have a little over half the baby clothes washed and put away in the nursery. We have the pack and play set up in our bedroom which is where the baby will sleep for at least the first 4 to 6 weeks. We are getting very excited to meet our son.
How is Jen feeling? We've gone from good to fine. I have most of the usual pregnancy complaints. This week I am battling a sinus infection, but I am daily improving. Overall I am healthy and excited to have a baby.
We are thankful to the Lord for all his blessing and we know that He is control of all the details and He will bring baby Ethan into the world when the time is right. We are thankful that we have a loving Savior who guides each step and walks with us each day.
Monday, October 10, 2011
35 Weeks
Well folks.. we are hitting the home stretch.. five weeks till the due date. The big question, are we ready? Easy answer - NO! We have lots to do to prepare and I don't think we could ever be ready for one of the biggest changes in our lives.
Went to the doctor today. Everything looks great. I'm healthy and heard baby's heartbeat again! I'm sure many out there are curious but afraid to ask.. I've gained 27 pounds so far! Only 2 in the last 2 weeks which is great! I am hoping to come in under the 35 pound mark!
The midwife did decide that after reviewing my chart and the stats from the ultrasound around week 22 that they do want to go ahead and do another ultrasound, so next Tuesday we will get to take another peak inside my womb.. I'm hoping they will do 3D and that this time he won't be so camera shy (besides, he should get use to having a camera in his face.. for I am sure there will be no shortage of picture taking after he makes his big debut!). This ultrasound is really just information gathering. We did not discuss how this could change labor/delivery and I don't think it will. No matter how big he seems on the ultrasound there is no way to know how labor will go (and this was expressed by the midwife earlier in the pregnancy). The midwife did not seem concerned and so we are not concerned. I believe this is just normal protocal for how big he measured on the previous ultrasound.
Are we excited? YES! We can't wait to meet him outside of mommy's belly and see who he looks like and get to know his personality! We are thrilled!! It is strange to carry another person around with you all the time and to talk to him and have a relationship with him but not know what his face looks like... I can't wait to look him in the eye and formally meet him!
Yes I've had all the usually pregnancy side effects.. swollen feet sometimes, swollen hands/fingers some days, not great sleep, heartburn, etc.
However, I've been healthy and it could always be worse. The Lord is good and he has guided us step by step which I know He will continue to do.
Sunday, October 2, 2011
34 Weeks
6 weeks till my due date! Wow.. can't believe how fast time has gone by. This week we reach another milestone. The crib and changing table were delivered and assembled over the weekend. The spare bedroom has officially become the spare bedroom/nursery!! It feels great to know that the baby has a little home of his own now.. although there is still much to be done in the room. This is a picture of some of the progress. We plan on painting the room a different color sometime in the coming weeks.
My sister and her husband came up for the weekend and helped us with the room. It was a huge help and without them this would have taken us several days and many hours of frustration. We enjoyed a productive weekend mixed with moments of fun.
No other changes with me. Feeling okay most days and Steve is being a great support to me. We are getting more excited everyday to welcome this new life into our family, although in many ways he already is a big part.
Tuesday, September 27, 2011
Week 33
Sorry it has been a few weeks since I posted an update. It has been a very busy few weeks. This last Saturday the ladies from the my sunday school class at church hosted a baby shower for me and it was fabulous. My mother and father were able to come up for the weekend, and they were such an added blessing. We got many wonderful things from our church family and local Lynchburg friends. We feel truly blessed and thankful for every one's love and generosity. After the shower my mom and Steve helped me organize and temporarily put away everything, until the nursery is set up. Our nursery furniture (crib and changing table) have been ordered and should be here by this weekend!! We haven't really done any work in the nursery yet, but that will be the ongoing task all month.
Yesterday I went to the midwife office (I now go every two weeks for a standard check up, and at 36 weeks I begin going every week until I deliver). At these appointments they are just weighing me and checking the basics (size, baby heartbeat, etc.). They are the same they've been throughout pregnancy, but during the first two trimesters I went every 4 weeks. They are usually short - in and out in about 20 minutes - but very helpful as I have a chance to ask any questions that have come up. Everything has been healthy so far and once again my weight looks good (I gained 3 pounds in two weeks this time) and so was my blood pressure and baby's heartbeat.
As far as how I am feeling things are going okay. Yes, I feel very pregnant. But, for the most part I daily remind myself that it could be worse. Some days I don't feel so bad and have tons of energy and not much hurts, other days everything hurts. My feet have been swelling the more. The midwife even commented on the swelling, but did not seem overly concerned as I have no other problems and my blood pressure has been great throughout pregnancy. Sleep has definitely changed, on a good night I only wake up one time, on a difficult night it might be 3 or 4. But I've only had a few nights during the whole pregnancy in which sleep was became difficult to the point that I couldn't get back to sleep, and even on those nights I did sleep some.
Am I nesting? Some. It comes and goes. I definitely have this constant to do list in my head (which if you know me well.. before pregnancy I was NEVER a to do list person, and except in school I rarely worried about deadlines and getting things done). At this stage I really enjoy having things organized, but sometimes I am just too tired to work on it.
I am still working part time at the school. I work about 4 hours a day. This keeps me busy and on my feet most of those 4 hours (which probably contributes to the swelling). But I love the kids and I love the teachers.
Ethan moves all the time now. The midwife said this is a good sign that things are healthy. I think in the last few days he has been moving the most of the entire pregnancy. The movement has never kept me awake at night, and provides great entertainment throughout today. I've had a few friends be lucky enough to touch the belly when he was moving, and my parents this weekend enjoyed watching the belly move while they were hear this week. It certainly looks strange and feels strange, but at the same time reminds me that the life inside me is growing and getting ready to come out.
I still can not believe that soon Steve and I will be parents. The Lord has been so good to us. I feel so many things at once that I try not to dwell on it because I will get overwhelmed. I feel joy, excitement, concern, anticipation, and at the same totally unprepared for something that I can not even comprehend was is to come or what will happen. I know the Lord is preparing us and walking with us each day and that brings me great comfort and reassurance. I know that His grace sufficient for all things including circumstances that I can not wrap my mind around.
This is the latest picture of me from Sunday before church:
Thursday, September 15, 2011
Pregnancy Loves
As I experience the third trimester I find it more difficult not to complain. This entire pregnancy one of my goals has been to complain as little as possible, since I am ever aware that there are many women who do not get to carry a baby, or get to carry a baby full term. I want to be thankful each day, no matter the difficulties it may bring. At this stage it would be easy to make a list of top ten things I don't like about being pregnant, but instead I wanted to try and make a list of the top ten things I love about being pregnant. So here it goes.. in no special order (I don't love number one the most, its just the first one that came to mind).
1. I love how my husband takes care of me and tries to comfort at every possible opportunity.
2. I love to feel baby Ethan kick.
3. I love to watch my husband's face light up with excitement when he feels the baby kick.
4. I love to watch my belly grow each day knowing that there is a precious life inside.
5. I love the constant reminder to thank God for being the author of life - and the one that allows each of us to live each day.
6. I love that I get to whatever I want - to a limit of course.
7. I love that my husband thinks I am beautiful pregnant.
8. I love the excuse to go shopping - can never have enough maternity or baby stuff.
9. I love that each day I feel more bonded to this baby I am carrying - I get to share every part of my life with him until he comes out and that is pretty cool.
10. I love how much I get to see and experience God in new ways. Through his comfort, provision, and daily reminders that he created me to do this and that he created this child inside of me for a special purpose.
I could probably write a few more, but for now, that's a good start.
If anyone is wondering how I am feeling.. I feel pregnant. I am very thankful that so far the Lord has blessed us with a healthy pregnant. Therefore, any discomforts I feel can be overlooked when I remind myself that it could always be worse. We are overcome with thankfulness to the Lord for all His provisions and this miracle that He has given us.
1. I love how my husband takes care of me and tries to comfort at every possible opportunity.
2. I love to feel baby Ethan kick.
3. I love to watch my husband's face light up with excitement when he feels the baby kick.
4. I love to watch my belly grow each day knowing that there is a precious life inside.
5. I love the constant reminder to thank God for being the author of life - and the one that allows each of us to live each day.
6. I love that I get to whatever I want - to a limit of course.
7. I love that my husband thinks I am beautiful pregnant.
8. I love the excuse to go shopping - can never have enough maternity or baby stuff.
9. I love that each day I feel more bonded to this baby I am carrying - I get to share every part of my life with him until he comes out and that is pretty cool.
10. I love how much I get to see and experience God in new ways. Through his comfort, provision, and daily reminders that he created me to do this and that he created this child inside of me for a special purpose.
I could probably write a few more, but for now, that's a good start.
If anyone is wondering how I am feeling.. I feel pregnant. I am very thankful that so far the Lord has blessed us with a healthy pregnant. Therefore, any discomforts I feel can be overlooked when I remind myself that it could always be worse. We are overcome with thankfulness to the Lord for all His provisions and this miracle that He has given us.
Sunday, September 4, 2011
30 Weeks
It has been a while since an update. The last few weeks have been busy, and I've now entered the third trimester!! What an exciting time, knowing that the birth is getting closer by the day. Recently the number one question I get asked is related to the nursery. Is it ready? Not even close. Right now the room that will be the nursery is our spare bedroom with a pile of baby stuff we got in the middle. In a few more weeks we will have another baby shower (on August 24th to be exact), at our church in Lynchburg. Once this happens we will know exactly what is left to get, and what we really need. At this point we've gotten many great things, but we still have no diapers and no bottles. There are some other things, but those are two of the major things we will need when we bring the baby home. I plan on nursing, but you never know what will happen so its good to have a least a couple bottles on hand just in case.
The changes happening with me are simple, I'm getting bigger and more tired by the day. The third trimester fatigue is definitely getting stronger. I had a lot of energy during the second, and now I'm back to being tired a lot.. I'm also not sleeping as well, but thats to be expected.
Baby Ethan moves a lot. He usually moves before I eat, after I eat, and if I accidentially roll on too my belly at night, he'll start kicking.
At 28 weeks I had a doctors appointment. Now I will go every two weeks, so I am scheduled to again Tuesday afternoon. On the last appointment I had my glucose tolearance test to test for gestational diabeties. The test came back negative, meaning I do not have it. An hour after drinking a specific sugar drink my sugar level was 96 (this is very good, and completely normal). They also tested my blood again to make sure I'm not anemic, and that also came back negative. These were both standard tests they do for all pregnant women at 28 weeks. And I'm clear in both areas, so praise the Lord, so far I've had not complications with the pregnancy. My weight also looks good, and is in the normal range.
While I have moments of being uncomfortable, and I am thankful that the pregnancy has made it this far and that I am still pregnant at this point. We only have about 10 weeks left to full term! Hopefully the next update won't be in 3 weeks.
The changes happening with me are simple, I'm getting bigger and more tired by the day. The third trimester fatigue is definitely getting stronger. I had a lot of energy during the second, and now I'm back to being tired a lot.. I'm also not sleeping as well, but thats to be expected.
Baby Ethan moves a lot. He usually moves before I eat, after I eat, and if I accidentially roll on too my belly at night, he'll start kicking.
At 28 weeks I had a doctors appointment. Now I will go every two weeks, so I am scheduled to again Tuesday afternoon. On the last appointment I had my glucose tolearance test to test for gestational diabeties. The test came back negative, meaning I do not have it. An hour after drinking a specific sugar drink my sugar level was 96 (this is very good, and completely normal). They also tested my blood again to make sure I'm not anemic, and that also came back negative. These were both standard tests they do for all pregnant women at 28 weeks. And I'm clear in both areas, so praise the Lord, so far I've had not complications with the pregnancy. My weight also looks good, and is in the normal range.
While I have moments of being uncomfortable, and I am thankful that the pregnancy has made it this far and that I am still pregnant at this point. We only have about 10 weeks left to full term! Hopefully the next update won't be in 3 weeks.
Saturday, August 20, 2011
Baby Shower - 28 Weeks
Today marks 28 weeks! 3rd Trimester here I come! Today we also celebrated this new life with a wonderful baby shower in Chesterfield hosted by my sister Shirley. It was a wonderful day with a variety of food, games, and a great cake made by my Grandmother. We had many wonderful family and friends who came out to celebrate and shower us with love for this new baby. I was very thankful that Steve's Aunt made the trip down from New Hampshire to celebrate and spend time with the family. It was a great day and I am so thankful for all the gifts and all the people who came and supported us.
Today I am 28 weeks pregnant and have a little under three months to go. I have been feeling okay. My feet have started to swell more and some days my hips are sore, but other days they feel fine. This is all normal and overall considering the stage I am entering I feel good. Anytime I feel a pain or get uncomfortable I try and be thankful that baby Ethan is still inside of me and that I've been able to carry him this far with no complications.
Sometimes it is still hard to believe that I am this far along in the pregnancy and we are actually having a baby in a few months. We have not even started the process of setting up the baby room and we are definitely not ready, but we are thankful for all the family and friends who are encouraging us and supporting us throughout this journey.
Today I am 28 weeks pregnant and have a little under three months to go. I have been feeling okay. My feet have started to swell more and some days my hips are sore, but other days they feel fine. This is all normal and overall considering the stage I am entering I feel good. Anytime I feel a pain or get uncomfortable I try and be thankful that baby Ethan is still inside of me and that I've been able to carry him this far with no complications.
Sometimes it is still hard to believe that I am this far along in the pregnancy and we are actually having a baby in a few months. We have not even started the process of setting up the baby room and we are definitely not ready, but we are thankful for all the family and friends who are encouraging us and supporting us throughout this journey.
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
25 Weeks
Wow! The blog is in desperate need of an update. Sorry for the absence. I'm not even sure how it happened. But, here we are again. Not much has changed since the last set of updates. I am getting bigger (no surprise there) and need to put a picture up but have no good recent ones, so that will have to be another update. The biggest thing that's been happening in the baby department is working on our registries and planning baby showers!! My sister is hosting one (which I am very thankful for and excited about) and then there will also be one at my church. The family/friends one that my sister is hosting is in just a few weeks! I am very excited that one of Steve's Aunts is coming from New Hampshire for the shower! What an exciting time and I am so thankful she is going to be able to make the trip to be there for a special day.
Somehow we ended up with registries at 3 stores. I'm not sure how this happened.. but that's what we have. We are registered at Target, Babies R Us, and Baby Depot. Baby Depot is inside Burlington Coat Factory. It has taken up more time than I ever wanted, but hopefully will help us get everything we need (and then some).
As August has begun and summer is beginning the downward spiral to ending it is strange to think that in a few more months our lives will be completely different. That Lord willing the next time spring and summer begin we will have a baby in our family. That when football season begins I will be pregnant and by the time it ends we should have a baby at home. Crazy! But in a totally awesome, exciting, and scary feeling all at once.
Right now I try mostly to take it one day at a time - considering my body is constantly reminding me to slow down and take it easy - and to keep focused on the present so that I don't miss opportunities that we have now to enjoy this wonderful life that God has blessed us with.
Little Ethan kicks everyday now.. sometimes more, sometimes less. Sometimes he makes my whole belly move, and other times just little kicks I know only mommy is aware of. He kicks a lot after meals (I think he likes hamburgers and bratwurst). I am feeling as good as can be expected. We recently purchased a full body pregnancy pillow which is helping me get more time of good sleep at night.
Thank you to all those who are praying for us and continue to support during this time of change. We appreciate and love each and everyone of you.
Somehow we ended up with registries at 3 stores. I'm not sure how this happened.. but that's what we have. We are registered at Target, Babies R Us, and Baby Depot. Baby Depot is inside Burlington Coat Factory. It has taken up more time than I ever wanted, but hopefully will help us get everything we need (and then some).
As August has begun and summer is beginning the downward spiral to ending it is strange to think that in a few more months our lives will be completely different. That Lord willing the next time spring and summer begin we will have a baby in our family. That when football season begins I will be pregnant and by the time it ends we should have a baby at home. Crazy! But in a totally awesome, exciting, and scary feeling all at once.
Right now I try mostly to take it one day at a time - considering my body is constantly reminding me to slow down and take it easy - and to keep focused on the present so that I don't miss opportunities that we have now to enjoy this wonderful life that God has blessed us with.
Little Ethan kicks everyday now.. sometimes more, sometimes less. Sometimes he makes my whole belly move, and other times just little kicks I know only mommy is aware of. He kicks a lot after meals (I think he likes hamburgers and bratwurst). I am feeling as good as can be expected. We recently purchased a full body pregnancy pillow which is helping me get more time of good sleep at night.
Thank you to all those who are praying for us and continue to support during this time of change. We appreciate and love each and everyone of you.
Monday, July 11, 2011
22 Week Appointment
Today I went to the midwife and had a great checkup. Blood pressure looks great. According to the doctor's office I've gained ten pounds (which is great and right where I should be). The size of my uterus is also normal and exactly where it should be. This is another indication the the due date is accurate.
I asked the doctor about the size of Ethan from the ultrasound last week and looking at specific measurements things look good. His skull measurement is only in the 74% range, but his specific arm and leg bones are in the 90% percentile. Which means he is not really big, just long. We may or may not have an ultrasound again at around 34 weeks.. this is not normal at this doctor's office.. usually you do not have a 3rd ultrasound but with this baby they may decide later its needed. The midwife is not worried about this pregnancy, and at this point was clear that there is no reason to think I can't deliver the baby in the normal way. Everything looks great.
I've now started to feel the baby kick several times a day! Today I felt him while at the doctors and then later in the evening. I love it!
Right now I am definitely in the honeymoon phase. I feel great and I LOVE being pregnant!! I love caring the baby and knowing he is growing. I love picking out baby stuff and working on the registery. I love feeling so connected when he moves and kicks inside of me. Wow.. I've wanted to be pregnant for a long time and I think that adds to my own enjoyment of the experience. Everyday I look forward to the day when I can hold and care for this child that is growing inside me. I am constantly reminded that this child is a gift from the Lord and a special miracle
I asked the doctor about the size of Ethan from the ultrasound last week and looking at specific measurements things look good. His skull measurement is only in the 74% range, but his specific arm and leg bones are in the 90% percentile. Which means he is not really big, just long. We may or may not have an ultrasound again at around 34 weeks.. this is not normal at this doctor's office.. usually you do not have a 3rd ultrasound but with this baby they may decide later its needed. The midwife is not worried about this pregnancy, and at this point was clear that there is no reason to think I can't deliver the baby in the normal way. Everything looks great.
I've now started to feel the baby kick several times a day! Today I felt him while at the doctors and then later in the evening. I love it!
Right now I am definitely in the honeymoon phase. I feel great and I LOVE being pregnant!! I love caring the baby and knowing he is growing. I love picking out baby stuff and working on the registery. I love feeling so connected when he moves and kicks inside of me. Wow.. I've wanted to be pregnant for a long time and I think that adds to my own enjoyment of the experience. Everyday I look forward to the day when I can hold and care for this child that is growing inside me. I am constantly reminded that this child is a gift from the Lord and a special miracle
Sunday, July 10, 2011
Week 22
Saturday marked 22 weeks of pregnancy. The most recent development is that I've started to feel baby Ethan kick more and more. I had been feeling some light movements and flutters (quickening) but Friday night I felt a firm kick, then put my hand on my belly and felt him kick my hand! Since then I've been feeling firm kicks several different times a day and I've felt him kick my hand a few more times. Steve has yet to feel this, but we are hopeful it'll happen soon! Today in church I felt him kick and then when I looked down I saw the belly move like a kick was coming from the inside. Wow.. what an amazing thing to see if life inside you moving and kicking. I love it! Other than that I feel great. Tomorrow I see the midwife and I am hopeful for a good report. I will post here for anything significant from the doctor.
Thursday, July 7, 2011
Ultrasound
These are different and better quality pictures from the ultrasound. Basically I figured out how to capture pictures from the DVD! These show hands, feet, spine, and boy parts. I would love to put a piece of the video up but that did not work yet, we will see if I am able to work on that more this weekend. Everyone that we've told about having a boy is very excited, as are we! For me, these pictures clearly illustrate Psalm 139 vs. 13 and 14 - "you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb, I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well."
Wednesday, July 6, 2011
2nd Ultrasound
Today we had our second ultrasound.. pictures are coming soon, but I had difficulty uploading them.
Here are the highlights:
- Its a boy!!
- He is very big - measuring in the 90% percentile on lengths, brain size, and overall weight.
- Overall weight is estimated (this is not exact) to be currently 1 lb. 3 ozs.
- Everything looks healthy, and He was active, but then became shy and kept covering his face with his arms/hands.
- Steve and I both thrilled and can't wait to welcome Ethan James into family when He and the Lord decide its time!
Here are the highlights:
- Its a boy!!
- He is very big - measuring in the 90% percentile on lengths, brain size, and overall weight.
- Overall weight is estimated (this is not exact) to be currently 1 lb. 3 ozs.
- Everything looks healthy, and He was active, but then became shy and kept covering his face with his arms/hands.
- Steve and I both thrilled and can't wait to welcome Ethan James into family when He and the Lord decide its time!
Monday, July 4, 2011
Week 21
Well there was not much to update this week on. I've started to feel more random baby movements, but still not all the time and it comes and goes.. some days I don't feel anything, other days I feel very specific movements. Steve has not yet felt the baby move, but he is getting more excited everyday for the arrival of our baby. This week has been filled with lots of July 4th activities, including some at school and some at church, with today including some fun activities with friends.
Saturday, June 25, 2011
Family Weekend 20 Weeks
I am 20 weeks along in the pregnancy which means I am at the halfway mark. I am feeling occasional movements, but not very consistent or frequent yet. I have not felt a definitely strong kick yet. I've been feeling great, still tired but sleeping okay for the most part. Not as well as I slept before being pregnant, but still sleeping good. I am tired more, but eating regularly and Steve makes sure I take care of myself.
This weekend Steve and I were able to go to Hampton and see many family members we haven't seen in many years. It was a short trip, but well worth it and a great time.
Tonight we also had a little bit of time and we were able to do go to Babies R' Us and start our first registery. It was me, Steve, and my sister in law Jennifer, and my mother. It was great having the input and advice of good family. Its a great store, but no location in Lynchburg. This registery is not complete, but its nice to have a start to this. Funny thing happened when we were filling out the paperwork - I put down a combination of my Lynchburg address and the city of Hampton and the Hampton zip code.. don't know what I was thinking but everyone had a good laugh about it!
On July 6th we find out the gender. We are very excited and continue praying that this pregnancy will be healthy, but most importantly we pray that this pregnancy and new life brings glory to God whatever His plan maybe. We hope and pray that this child will love the Lord and honor Him.
Saturday, June 18, 2011
Quick Update
Okay, this one is going to be very quick, because I'm at the LU C-Lab and I need to go eat lunch (this baby is hungry).. Steve has our laptop today while covering a basketball tournament in Charlottesville which is about an hour away.. he'll be home later tonight.
Anyways, two new things have happened in the last week. One, I've had an on and off pain in my left hip. Based on my online research (no surprise that I went online and googled it.. haha).. and some advice/comments from friends who've been there.. we've determined its sciatic nerve. This is very common, nothing to worry about, just an issue that happens in a lot of pregnancies. It comes and goes (today is a good day with zero pain) and most often happens at night, after I've sitting for a long time, and hurts when I get up and walk. It is better today, but we never know what tomorrow will bring.
The belly is getting better and I'm slowing acquiring more maternity clothes. I hope to have a new picture up in the next week.
This week I also think (not sure) that I felt the first baby movements. It hasn't happened everyday, some days its more than others, but sometimes it just feels like gas and other times its like a fluttering, and other times its indescribable. Steve still thinks that I maybe imagining it or that I just REALLY want to feel the baby move. Either way, I've definitely been feeling more pregnant and more connected to this baby.
One last thought. I've been working at a preschool for the summer working with two years old and they can be a challenge. Some days I think, wow, I can't believe I will have one of these of my own to care for all the time. Then moments come (usually during their nap time) when I think.. wow.. I really love these kids and I've known them for 2 weeks.. how much more will I love my own child?? Its an overwhelming thought.. but it makes me even more excited for the months and years ahead.
Anyways, two new things have happened in the last week. One, I've had an on and off pain in my left hip. Based on my online research (no surprise that I went online and googled it.. haha).. and some advice/comments from friends who've been there.. we've determined its sciatic nerve. This is very common, nothing to worry about, just an issue that happens in a lot of pregnancies. It comes and goes (today is a good day with zero pain) and most often happens at night, after I've sitting for a long time, and hurts when I get up and walk. It is better today, but we never know what tomorrow will bring.
The belly is getting better and I'm slowing acquiring more maternity clothes. I hope to have a new picture up in the next week.
This week I also think (not sure) that I felt the first baby movements. It hasn't happened everyday, some days its more than others, but sometimes it just feels like gas and other times its like a fluttering, and other times its indescribable. Steve still thinks that I maybe imagining it or that I just REALLY want to feel the baby move. Either way, I've definitely been feeling more pregnant and more connected to this baby.
One last thought. I've been working at a preschool for the summer working with two years old and they can be a challenge. Some days I think, wow, I can't believe I will have one of these of my own to care for all the time. Then moments come (usually during their nap time) when I think.. wow.. I really love these kids and I've known them for 2 weeks.. how much more will I love my own child?? Its an overwhelming thought.. but it makes me even more excited for the months and years ahead.
Friday, June 10, 2011
A Brave New World
My new everyday world is with two year olds. I recently started working at a preschool that is associated with our church in the twos. Which means my day now consists of potty breaks, snack times, tantrums, messy diapers/pull ups, and nap times. My days are measured not in hours or minutes but in how many poopy diapers I changed, and how many time outs I had to give. I imagine two year olds measure their day in how much they missed mommy/daddy, how many times their teacher got mad at them, how many times another kid took their toy, and how many times another kid hit/kicked/ran into. For those that are interested in details I have five assigned to my classroom but the most I've had show up on one day is four. There have been 2 out of 4 days where I had 3. I have 3 boys and one girl, but the girl can be a bigger handful than the boys. I have one that has never been in a preschool or daycare type setting. They are mostly partly potty trained, meaning they mostly wear pullups and about 50% of the time go in the potty. Which brings up an interesting thing.. I've noticed my vocabulary has shifted and I use different words to describe things associated with the bathroom :). I have to work hard not to talk to Steve in that new found language. How was my first week? There were hard parts, easy parts, and mostly just parts that I loved. I really do love children. Even the ones that can be difficult and talk back. I love being in their world. I love working with them. And I love how simple their life is. They tell you how they feel and what they want. Is it demanding sometimes? Of course. But the Lord is good and I feel like everyday it gets easier and everyday I learn something knew as far as how to handle different situations.
On a side note I had a short doctor's visit this week. I heard the heartbeat again! And my blood pressure and weight look great! Everything looks very healthy. Our next visit is in four weeks on July 6th. This will be an ultrasound and we should find out if this baby will be a Mr. Clark and a Miss. Clark. We are SO excited and thankful to the Lord for all the blessings He has given us. Every blessing we receive is a gift that we know we don't deserve.
If you are a reader (regular or not) please feel free to post a comment. Tell us what you most enjoy about the blog, what your most excited about with the pregnancy, or any other random thoughts.
Thanks for reading.
On a side note I had a short doctor's visit this week. I heard the heartbeat again! And my blood pressure and weight look great! Everything looks very healthy. Our next visit is in four weeks on July 6th. This will be an ultrasound and we should find out if this baby will be a Mr. Clark and a Miss. Clark. We are SO excited and thankful to the Lord for all the blessings He has given us. Every blessing we receive is a gift that we know we don't deserve.
If you are a reader (regular or not) please feel free to post a comment. Tell us what you most enjoy about the blog, what your most excited about with the pregnancy, or any other random thoughts.
Thanks for reading.
Sunday, June 5, 2011
5 Years - 17 weeks
The last week has been crazy for us. My dad's stepmother died and the viewing was Tuesday night and the Funeral was Wednesday. Around Thursday I found out that I am going to be a Preschool teacher for the summer at Timberlake Christian Schools with 2 year olds. I am nervous at this point, but mostly because I'm not really sure exactly what to expect and I start with children on Tuesday. Then this weekend Steve and I celebrated 5 years of marriage. First of all, it still seems like yesterday when we got married and 5 year mark has come way to fast. We truly love each other more everyday.
We were able to go out of town for a few days to Carolina Beach. We spent 2 full days and 3 nights in a condo/villa about a block from the ocean. It was beautiful and the weather was great. I am getting over a cold and Steve is in the middle of his, so we some meds from the doctor we went to the beach anyways. We were still able to do lots of fun stuff, it just meant we had to be flexible with out time. But the Lord blessed us, because it was the perfect vacation setting for just taking it easy and relaxing. Most afternoons Steve napped/relaxed while I worked on a puzzle that the condo had. We were able to spend at least an hour a day on the beach (we got very little sunburn, but we did end up with a little) we tried to read while on the beach but Steve was so relaxed he kept falling asleep. When I asked him what his favorite part of the trip was, he said just hanging out on the beach relaxing with me. We also went to a local aquarium and a local farmer's market that happened to be across the street from where we were staying. I got some local homemade zucchini bread and Steve got some meat marinade. We were able to eat out at some great local seafood restaurants in the evenings, and one morning we got homemade fresh donuts and ate them feet from beach!
It was a great weekend. Here are some pictures.
We were able to go out of town for a few days to Carolina Beach. We spent 2 full days and 3 nights in a condo/villa about a block from the ocean. It was beautiful and the weather was great. I am getting over a cold and Steve is in the middle of his, so we some meds from the doctor we went to the beach anyways. We were still able to do lots of fun stuff, it just meant we had to be flexible with out time. But the Lord blessed us, because it was the perfect vacation setting for just taking it easy and relaxing. Most afternoons Steve napped/relaxed while I worked on a puzzle that the condo had. We were able to spend at least an hour a day on the beach (we got very little sunburn, but we did end up with a little) we tried to read while on the beach but Steve was so relaxed he kept falling asleep. When I asked him what his favorite part of the trip was, he said just hanging out on the beach relaxing with me. We also went to a local aquarium and a local farmer's market that happened to be across the street from where we were staying. I got some local homemade zucchini bread and Steve got some meat marinade. We were able to eat out at some great local seafood restaurants in the evenings, and one morning we got homemade fresh donuts and ate them feet from beach!
It was a great weekend. Here are some pictures.
Saturday, May 28, 2011
Maternity Shopping
Today I am 16 weeks and maternity clothes are becoming more necessary. However, our budget these days is very tight, so today we went in search of some affordable maternity clothes. The day started off with a simple plan. First a yardsale or two, then some consignment shops, and then a quick errand. Well, the first yardsale started off interesting. The sign said they had maternity clothes but I could not find anything. They did have some cloth diapers which I considered, but before I could decide I began to feel nauseous (and then I was sick) and so we headed home for a few minutes. Then we decided to run our other errand and then we headed to the consignment shops. The first one was a major success. They had about two to three racks of maternity clothes, but they were very full racks. I got seven different items for all around 45 dollars. (Each individual item ranged from 3 dollars to 8 dollars). Then we went to the second one which had a slightly smaller section and slightly more expensive. I did find a few things. Then we finished the day with a small lunch at a local bakery. It was certainly different shopping, but overall I enjoyed it and feel I got several items that I can wear for a while. I told Steve aftewards that I am officially a "thrifty" shopper. The picture below is the clothes I got!
The down side is this is the second time in a week I've gotten sick. I've felt worse this week then I did early on in the pregnancy. Today I've been working all day to ease the sick feeling.. I'm really not a fan and hope it gets better soon.
Wednesday, May 25, 2011
Week 15
Today I am 15 weeks 4 days into what will hopefully be a 40 week journey. For those that want to know the number months.. I don't know. I guess 4 out of 10 months. Since I last posted these are some things that have happened:
- I finished my student teaching.
- I graduated with my masters. (A special thanks to all the family and friends who sent cards, gifts, and came in person to celebrate this milestone)
- I acted as a temporary babysitter for a friend who is a mother of a beautiful 5 month old girl. I did this for five days out of two weeks from 8-415. It was a kind of crash course in motherhood and it was great.
Recent questions from people:
What is your due date? November 12th. My doctor's office has said they will not induce until 2 weeks after the due date. So we expect (Lord willing) that we should have a baby sometime in November.
Have you felt the baby move? No, but I hope to soon!
When will you find out the gender? The appointment is not set, but we expect the end of June we will have the big ultrasound.
What plans do you have for after the baby is born? At this point none except take care of the baby in some form. Please pray for us as we continue to seek God in regards to our future.
I haven't taken a recent belly picture. It is showing a little more each day, but its not always the most noticeable. I am still able to hide it easily if I want too. Maybe I will take another picture and post it here soon.
My next doctor's appointment is June 1st and then on June 3rd Steve and I will celebrate 5 years of marriage. We feel so blessed by our Lord within our marriage and our family. His grace is sufficient and we have seen that in many powerful ways in our marriage. We are thankful for eachother but we are most thankful for the sacrifice of Christ and the grace He offers which is the only reason our marriage has lasted and thrived.
- I finished my student teaching.
- I graduated with my masters. (A special thanks to all the family and friends who sent cards, gifts, and came in person to celebrate this milestone)
- I acted as a temporary babysitter for a friend who is a mother of a beautiful 5 month old girl. I did this for five days out of two weeks from 8-415. It was a kind of crash course in motherhood and it was great.
Recent questions from people:
What is your due date? November 12th. My doctor's office has said they will not induce until 2 weeks after the due date. So we expect (Lord willing) that we should have a baby sometime in November.
Have you felt the baby move? No, but I hope to soon!
When will you find out the gender? The appointment is not set, but we expect the end of June we will have the big ultrasound.
What plans do you have for after the baby is born? At this point none except take care of the baby in some form. Please pray for us as we continue to seek God in regards to our future.
I haven't taken a recent belly picture. It is showing a little more each day, but its not always the most noticeable. I am still able to hide it easily if I want too. Maybe I will take another picture and post it here soon.
My next doctor's appointment is June 1st and then on June 3rd Steve and I will celebrate 5 years of marriage. We feel so blessed by our Lord within our marriage and our family. His grace is sufficient and we have seen that in many powerful ways in our marriage. We are thankful for eachother but we are most thankful for the sacrifice of Christ and the grace He offers which is the only reason our marriage has lasted and thrived.
Wednesday, May 11, 2011
The Funny Side of Pregnancy
Most people that know me well are aware that I like to laugh at myself. Steve regularly comments that I can be silly and make him laugh. I believe laughter should be a part of everyday and if you aren't laughing at yourself someone else probably is, but its way more fun if you jump in. We all do funny things everyday - God definitely has a sense of humor. Pregnancy brings a whole new range of funny moments. A bodily noise no one in the room expected. Falling asleep at inappropriate moments (like 7pm on the couch).
One of the funniest times Steve and I have enjoyed together is the time when my baby bump was just starting to come out and i was absolutely obsessed with pointing it out 50 times a day to my husband. For awhile he'd indulge my excitment and laugh with me when I showed him how I felt that my baby bump was getting bigger. The funniest thing was after showing Steve my baby bump several times during the day, by the time it was time to go to bed that night, when I wanted him to take one more look at my bump, he just stood there laughing so hard, harder than he had laughed all day. When I asked him why he was laughing so hard, he told me that the thought going through his head at that moment was, "well, do you want some cookies or mac and cheese so it can get bigger?" We both had a good laugh that night although it was late and I wasn't very coherent. It was one of the funniest moments Steve and I have shared during the first trimester, and we are looking forward to more as we go into the 2nd trimester.
If anyone else has a funny story from a pregnancy they want to share please do!
**This was a joint post by Steve and Jen**
One of the funniest times Steve and I have enjoyed together is the time when my baby bump was just starting to come out and i was absolutely obsessed with pointing it out 50 times a day to my husband. For awhile he'd indulge my excitment and laugh with me when I showed him how I felt that my baby bump was getting bigger. The funniest thing was after showing Steve my baby bump several times during the day, by the time it was time to go to bed that night, when I wanted him to take one more look at my bump, he just stood there laughing so hard, harder than he had laughed all day. When I asked him why he was laughing so hard, he told me that the thought going through his head at that moment was, "well, do you want some cookies or mac and cheese so it can get bigger?" We both had a good laugh that night although it was late and I wasn't very coherent. It was one of the funniest moments Steve and I have shared during the first trimester, and we are looking forward to more as we go into the 2nd trimester.
If anyone else has a funny story from a pregnancy they want to share please do!
**This was a joint post by Steve and Jen**
Saturday, May 7, 2011
13 Weeks
Well... today marks completion of 13 weeks.. based on my research I think sometime between today and Tuesday I am officially in the 2nd Trimester!!.. I have been feeling better and my energy is coming back some.. here are a list of highlights from this week:
-Great Doctor's visit: Blood work is all normal. Heard baby's heart beat!! I am Rh negative and will need a few shots to counter this. Its nothing to be concerned about, and is very normal. (I know several friends who had this). My blood type is O negative. If your curious you can google it.. I may blog more about this as time goes on.
-Bought first maternity clothes! (pants, swim suit, shirt, and dress)
-Received my first Mother's Day card (thanks to my mother-in-law and Steve's Aunt)
Overall it was a great week and I am really excited about graduating in a week!
The Lord has been very good to us and I feel very blessed at this time in our life. His kindness and goodness to us is overwhelming. When I sit and think about all the things he is doing in our lives right now I feel blessed beyond anything I deserve. I am so thankful to Him for walking with us each day, and for the greatness of His love and mercy.
-Great Doctor's visit: Blood work is all normal. Heard baby's heart beat!! I am Rh negative and will need a few shots to counter this. Its nothing to be concerned about, and is very normal. (I know several friends who had this). My blood type is O negative. If your curious you can google it.. I may blog more about this as time goes on.
-Bought first maternity clothes! (pants, swim suit, shirt, and dress)
-Received my first Mother's Day card (thanks to my mother-in-law and Steve's Aunt)
Overall it was a great week and I am really excited about graduating in a week!
The Lord has been very good to us and I feel very blessed at this time in our life. His kindness and goodness to us is overwhelming. When I sit and think about all the things he is doing in our lives right now I feel blessed beyond anything I deserve. I am so thankful to Him for walking with us each day, and for the greatness of His love and mercy.
Saturday, April 30, 2011
Baby Bump
12 Weeks today (which means I've completed the 12th week and have about one week left of the first trimester!!
Here is a picture from today:
Here is a picture from today:
Wednesday, April 27, 2011
Week 11
Well the last week has been extremely busy. My older sister Shirley got married on Saturday. It was a beautiful wedding and it was great to see so much family. I really thought my dress would not fit, but due to a small miracle, it did. There was a more pronounced baby bump than I had expected. When I find a really good picture I'll post it here for everyone to see.
The baby bump appears to be making it's appearance slowly but surely. At this point it really depends on the outfit I'm wearing, but, when you look closely and the clothes are tight, you can definitely see it (at least thats what I tell Steve everyday.. haha). Everyday after I am done getting ready I point out the bump (and I also enjoy pointing it out at other random points in the day). He was very excited for me the first time, but now I think he is more entertained by my excitement, than by the fact that there is a small bump. I never thought I would excited about getting bigger, but in this case, I definitely am.
The most common question I still get is, how are you feeling? I have good days and bad days. Today is a good day. I have only been really sick about 3 times. I am still tired, but I have been sleeping better the last few nights. I am very thankful to God everytime I sleep through the night. Up until this week, almost every night I woke up in the middle night at least once.
I hope to have pictures of the bump posted soon.
The baby bump appears to be making it's appearance slowly but surely. At this point it really depends on the outfit I'm wearing, but, when you look closely and the clothes are tight, you can definitely see it (at least thats what I tell Steve everyday.. haha). Everyday after I am done getting ready I point out the bump (and I also enjoy pointing it out at other random points in the day). He was very excited for me the first time, but now I think he is more entertained by my excitement, than by the fact that there is a small bump. I never thought I would excited about getting bigger, but in this case, I definitely am.
The most common question I still get is, how are you feeling? I have good days and bad days. Today is a good day. I have only been really sick about 3 times. I am still tired, but I have been sleeping better the last few nights. I am very thankful to God everytime I sleep through the night. Up until this week, almost every night I woke up in the middle night at least once.
I hope to have pictures of the bump posted soon.
Monday, April 18, 2011
Week 10
This Saturday marked ten weeks! I thought today I (Jen) would do a frequently asked questions:
1. How are you feeling? It changes on a day by day, moment by moment basis. Last week I had a few really good days, but then the nausea returned. The last 48 hours have been more difficult. I often feel ill before I eat which makes it difficult, but I just keep eating and drinking water.
2. Have you had any cravings? Yes - Macaroni and Cheese and Cinnamon Rolls.. neither of which have much nutritional value (maybe some calcium.. but a lot of fat). I also love a good bowl of milk and cereal.. its my go to food item.
3. Have you been really sick or just not feeling great? I've only been really "sick" once.
4. Do you want a boy or a girl? We want healthy! - But honestly, I see advantages and good things about both. I think Steve would love to have a boy to play sports with and do all those fun guy things. I also think a girl is fun to do girlie things with. We both want both eventually, so we are happy with whichever God gives us first.
5. Do you want to know the gender before giving birth? Steve's answer: YES!
6. When do you find out if its a boy or girl? We should find out around 20 weeks, which is when they do the next ultrasound.
The main symptom I've had is exhaustion. I have less energy, and when I do too much I get nausea.. its a challenging balance.
If you have a question post it in comments and Steve or I will answer.
1. How are you feeling? It changes on a day by day, moment by moment basis. Last week I had a few really good days, but then the nausea returned. The last 48 hours have been more difficult. I often feel ill before I eat which makes it difficult, but I just keep eating and drinking water.
2. Have you had any cravings? Yes - Macaroni and Cheese and Cinnamon Rolls.. neither of which have much nutritional value (maybe some calcium.. but a lot of fat). I also love a good bowl of milk and cereal.. its my go to food item.
3. Have you been really sick or just not feeling great? I've only been really "sick" once.
4. Do you want a boy or a girl? We want healthy! - But honestly, I see advantages and good things about both. I think Steve would love to have a boy to play sports with and do all those fun guy things. I also think a girl is fun to do girlie things with. We both want both eventually, so we are happy with whichever God gives us first.
5. Do you want to know the gender before giving birth? Steve's answer: YES!
6. When do you find out if its a boy or girl? We should find out around 20 weeks, which is when they do the next ultrasound.
The main symptom I've had is exhaustion. I have less energy, and when I do too much I get nausea.. its a challenging balance.
If you have a question post it in comments and Steve or I will answer.
Wednesday, April 13, 2011
Tuesday, April 12, 2011
Welcome
Welcome to our blog! First off, I have to admit that I stole this idea from a good friend. We have many family and friends who do not live near us and I wanted to start this blog to keep them informed and updated as our family grows. For those that need a quick update here are the beginning facts:
The Lord has blessed us with a pregnancy which was confirmed at our first doctor's appointment/ultrasound on 4/12/11.
As of 4/12/11 - 9weeks, 3days pregnant. At the first ultrasound we heard the heartbeat and I (Jen) cried tears of joy.. the first of many I'm sure I will cry for this new life that God has blessed us with. We were able to get a DVD and some pictures!
Symptoms I've had - you name it I've had it (nausea, vomiting, indegestion.. the list goes on!)
Our next ultrasound will be around 20 weeks, which will be sometime at the end of June or early July. At this appointment we plan to find out the gender!
Steve and I are thrilled that God has chosen to bless us with a child! The Lord has been good to us, and we are truely overwhelmed by the blessing.
The Lord has blessed us with a pregnancy which was confirmed at our first doctor's appointment/ultrasound on 4/12/11.
As of 4/12/11 - 9weeks, 3days pregnant. At the first ultrasound we heard the heartbeat and I (Jen) cried tears of joy.. the first of many I'm sure I will cry for this new life that God has blessed us with. We were able to get a DVD and some pictures!
Symptoms I've had - you name it I've had it (nausea, vomiting, indegestion.. the list goes on!)
Our next ultrasound will be around 20 weeks, which will be sometime at the end of June or early July. At this appointment we plan to find out the gender!
Steve and I are thrilled that God has chosen to bless us with a child! The Lord has been good to us, and we are truely overwhelmed by the blessing.
Jen's new phrase: "There's a baby.. and it has a hearbeat!!"
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